A wise person once said, “Women will never be equal to men
until they can walk down the street with a bald head and a beer gut,
and still think they are beautiful.” It’s a joke that
comes to mind when I think back to most of the Anglican Synods I
have ever attended. They are “boys’ clubs” with
locker room talk that includes boasts about who has the largest pulpit
and who spoke the loudest in the debates.
I attended a special sitting of the Synod in Sydney, the most conservative
Anglican Diocese in the world. The purpose of the meeting was to
debate whether women’s ordination should even be discussed
at the next Synod. My Dad was to state the affirmative case and the
man who went on to become Archbishop was to take the negative. They
would publicly debate the issues, and then hand over to comments
from the floor. My interest at hearing my Dad was tempered by my
horror that in the 1990s we were arguing a point that should have
been resolved a century earlier.
As a student ordinand my place in the synod was standing amidst
a large crowd at the edges of the synod. The hall was packed to the
rafters. The meeting was set up in good Anglican fashion, with a
clear domination hierarchy. The Archbishop and Bishops were seated
in the center with copes and miters in place. The members of the
Synod, the inner group, a predominantly male club, were in the next
tier. Finally there was the outer peanut gallery where I lurked.
Voices were heard on both sides of the debate for several hot and
heated hours. The voice that rang loudest and clearest was one that
came from outside even the outer gallery. In the midst of these carefully
measured debates an emotionally charged plea came from outside the
group. This was the voice of a person who had no rights in this club.
She stood out a mile away as being an outsider. I can assure of you
that because this woman entered the outside edge of the hall and
stood right next to me. She entered and just stood there for a moment.
This gave me time to size her up as someone who looked like an outsider.
She was certainly not a member of this club, not even the outer gallery.
Yet beyond her obvious physical traits was something far more significant.
There were tears in her eyes. And through those tears she cried from
her heart, “Just give us a go!”
Those powerful words hung in the air like dead calm after a thunder
storm. The debate was momentarily stopped as people glanced in our
direction. Apart from staring at the son of the main speaker who
had been trying to keep a low profile, the Synod sized up this crack
pot of a woman. There was a sigh of disapproval and, as one, the
club shrugged their collective shoulders and continued the debate.
After all she wasn't a member and had no place to speak. On top of
that she seemed to have lost control of her emotions. This was a
voice and a cry that fell on deaf ears. In fairness there were people
taking part in this debate as an act of solidarity with people like
this woman. Yet the overall air of the hall was one of a club whose
standards were never going to be lowered to include a woman such
as this.
I vowed that night to remain only and ever at the edge of the institution,
alongside those people who would never come any closer than the edge,
those people that Jesus showed special interest in. Liberation Theology
had become my experience within the church.
The sound of her voice, ten years on, still echoes in my spirit,
and challenges all of my prejudices. To this day the church in Sydney
continues to ignore her voice.
Gender, in my estimation, is among the five major concerns for the
worldwide church. Alongside racism that sparks so many religious
wars, class inequality that is part of the cause of poverty, sexuality
that leads to so much fear, and ecology that is so fragile, gender
has to be high on the agenda for churches charged to be liberators.
This is not just about ordaining women into churches. There is little
point in ordaining women into male structures, then wonder why so
few women want to pursue the option. The church must delve deep into
its Bible, its male God, its language, its policies and structures
in order for the necessary revolution to occur. If it is wise, it
will not isolate any one of the five key concerns from the others.
It seems to me that part of the limitation of Liberation Theology
was its grand narrative that argued that capitalism was the single
cause of poverty. I didn’t hear the male Liberation Theologians
of the 1980s and 1990s addressing the reality that even in wealthier
nations women are 40% more likely than men to be living in poverty.
I didn’t hear them questioning why elderly women in countries
such as America are 60% more likely than elderly men to be living
in poverty. I didn’t hear them wondering at the number of households
headed by females living in conditions of poverty where a new generation
of children are being raised into a cycle of poverty.
Not enough was heard from Liberation Theology about the fact that,
even allowing for the good fruits it has borne, globalization has
widened the gap between rich and poor in third world countries. Educated
women with even some English have an unequal advantage to get ahead
in a world where English is the power language.
Not enough mention was made of the fact that in the 1990s only eight
countries in the world had met the agreed goal for achieving greater
gender balance in terms of political representation. The objective
was for women to hold at least 30% of parliamentary seats. Not one
of those eight countries was in Latin American.
My overall assessment of Liberation Theology is that it did the
church a great favor. It forced the church back to its historical
roots; the Jesus revolution. It forced us to see our priority for
those residing at the edge of churches, either there out of fear
or forced there because of their questioning natures. It is also
my assessment that Liberation Theology did not see poverty in a wide
enough framework. My hope in this sermon is to look again at the
issue of gender as one of our five greatest concerns.
Our religious heritage is Hebrew culture where gender inequality
predated economic markets. Therefore we have to wonder about any
system that simply blames capitalism for all the evils of the world.
There is an ideology that runs deeper than, even if it includes an
economic reality. It is here that Feminism has attempted to journey.
There is a story from the 1890s that reminds us not to separate
gender issues from the other major global concerns. Black educator
Anna Julia Cooper noticed as she stopped at dilapidated train stations
that there were often two dingy sheds on the platform. One had a
sign that read “For Ladies” swinging over the door and
the other a sign that read “For Colored People”. Anna
says she never knew which door to open.
Our challenge as liberators in the tradition of Jesus is to know
which door to open, which issues to address and how they connect.
This has been the concern of the various strands of feminism. Many
of you will know that there have been three broad waves of feminism.
I want to explore with you how those three waves connect to Luke’s
story of Mary and Martha.
Most interpretations of Luke 10 see Martha acting more like a woman,
while Mary acted more like a man. Martha seemed to be practical,
nurturing and thoughtful, while Mary was conceptual, heavenly and
distracted by knowledge.
First wave feminism would say that Mary had every right to sit with
Jesus. This was the movement that pushed for voting and education
rights for women. It would say that women, like men, could be public
and active. This was a movement that challenged the barriers placed
between women and all the public spheres of life on the basis of
gender.
Second wave feminism would question the power of gendered roles
in the story. It would ask the question, “Is Mary’s public
role of being educated more important than Martha’s private
role of making sure there was food on the table?” It would
question the assertion of Jesus that listening to him is better than
being active and caring. It would insist that what it called the ‘feminine’ roles
be honored equally.
Third wave feminism would deconstruct the story by getting beneath
the details to the social context of the day. It would begin to connect
the poverty of women in the first century with their ethnicity and
religious origins. This movement asserts that gender differences
are best understood as a multiplicity of intersecting dimensions,
for example the five major concerns I mentioned earlier.
This would take us close to an integral approach to feminism where
both women and men are free to integrate aspects of both Mary and
Martha within them. It would recognize that we may be ascribed a
sex at birth, but our gender is something that cultures socially
construct. The construction of gender changes in different cultures
and at different times. We are all a blend of masculine and feminine
qualities as any given society defines those terms.
It would take us closer to an integral model of both transcending
and including previous stages as we develop. Maybe Mary and Martha
were two metaphors in Luke’s mind for the stages he was exploring;
the yin and yang of his life, the active and receptive in his experience.
It’s one possible explanation for the story. There is certainly
no judgment on either Mary or Martha in my mind, nor is there a right
or wrong way to be woman or man.
Ecofeminism is the most integrated of all the strands of feminism,
and is a neat fit for progressive Christianity. Ecofeminism states
that the same ideology that plunders nature also plunders women.
This takes me back to my seminary days when I was taught that built
into creation is an order that is divinely ordained. The order runs
from God to man to woman to animals to plants. It’s part of
the justification in Sydney for not ordaining women. They speak of
a slippery slope. If women are ordained, then what will come next?
Will we be ordaining dogs, or maybe even homosexuals?
Thinking back to my seminary days always makes me thing of the joke
that asks the question, “Why did God create Eve?” Well,
when God finished the creation of Adam, She stepped back, scratched
her head, and said, “I can do better than that.”
In my mind that joke is just as ludicrous as the notion that God
built a domination hierarchy into nature.
Ecofeminism takes us to the heart of an ideology that sees all events,
all processes, all relationships, and all social issues as being
connected. One affects all others, and each is created by all the
others. Its not so much about an order as it is about the layers
of meaning and cause and effect. It leads us to see that people are
poor for many complex reasons. It leads us to see that gender is
a multi-layered reality.
So, what can we do as people with a great concern for gender issues?
We can use our Hebrew and Christian Bibles sensitively. We can acknowledge
that God has been seen as male for long enough. We can acknowledge
that the Bible was written by men and primarily for men; therefore
it has a gender bias built into it. This gender bias needs to be
critiqued. We can acknowledge the role of a misapplied Bible
even today in the degrading of women, in curbing women’s rights
and locking women into narrowly defined ways of being ‘feminine’.
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There was a man who studied with me in seminary who felt so strongly
about women not teaching men, that in our church history class taught
by a woman, he sat in the front row with his hands covering his ears.
He did this every day for the whole year she taught us. He did this
because of his earnest desire to follow the teaching of the Bible.
It was so offensive, and yet he is now running some Anglican church
in Sydney and no doubt in that church there are no women teaching
in groups where men are present. After all he would say that a gendered
hierarchy is built into nature by God ‘Himself’.
Women are silenced, beaten and killed because of an ideology that
seems to be present in the misapplied Bible we inherit. Now it is
time for us to address the abuse.
Here in the final weeks of Lent before we begin recounting the journey
of Jesus to his death we become mindful of the reality of suffering,
but never glorifying suffering. Suffering
is inevitable, and can lead to positives in the many layers of meaning
we uncover in it. However we neither glorify victims of suffering,
nor do we condemn anyone to being a victim of suffering. In more
traditional views of Jesus death, where he suffered because of the
sins of the world according to God’s plan, Jesus was the victim.
It’s not much of a stretch from there to saying that women
should carry their cross without complaining. More progressive views
see Jesus death as a sad commentary on the power politics of his
day. In this view, rather than looking for the victims, we look for
those who will take up the same liberation cause as Jesus. We look
to empower those on the edge as Jesus empowered those who were marginalized
in his world.
Inspired by Jesus we will dream of being a church that doesn’t
lock people into disempowering models of gender, race or class. We
will speak of God as the source of all life enriching human experience
and the ground of all human qualities. We will see the world not
as Christian and not Christian, men and women, but as human beings
existing in a multiplicity of interconnected relationships.
I want to conclude with the image of a pendulum. This huge silver
ball with a needle point, hanging by wire from a fixed point on the
ceiling high above has been used to explore the rotation of the earth,
to keep time and to measure the shape of the earth. The pendulum
swings perpetually, given momentum by the instability of the solid
floor beneath it. The mechanism seems harmless and gives a sense
of a comforting permanence. It needs only occasional energy nudges
to keep its momentum.
Human life proceeds with a similar energy and momentum, consisting
of what appear to be opposites existing in tension with each other.
The balance is always found in the dynamic push and pull of these
apparent opposites. What better metaphor could there be for a progressive
church? How does this metaphor relate to gender?
The pendulum has been swinging towards an extreme in one direction
for thousands of years. A male God, a male Bible and a male church
structure has meant that two thirds of the members of the institution
and 50% of the globe’s population have been in a hugely unequal
position. If we are aiming at equality, the only way to redress the
imbalance is to allow the pendulum to swing freely in the other direction.
This will mean making special efforts to celebrate women in church,
to set policies whereby women are equally represented. It will mean
watching our language closely, choosing texts carefully. Isn’t
this beginning to sound like Liberation Theology again? Those who
have been kept at the edge of the church must now have their voices
heard. We will stand in solidarity with women in and out of church.
This will take us on a journey to the centre of nature, to a concern
for environment, to advocacy for poor women and women who have more
than one battle for equality to fight because of their ethnicity.
Mary Daly has been a radical feminist and critic of the institutional
church for many years. She ran courses at Boston College until 1999
which were for women only. In 1999 she was retired after a legal
injunction to have a man admitted to her class was successful. Daly
said this, “It takes a few people who are willing to live on
the fringes of society to pull the median in the right direction.” Will
we stand in that fire together here at Christ Community Church? Will
we dare? If we won’t, which church will?
Daly’s comment takes us back to the visitor at the fringe
of the Anglican Synod in Sydney. The woman whose words are still
ringing loudly in my ears helped to begin my journey. Her voice continues
to be silenced by churches at their own peril. Her words are now
ringing in our ears as well. “Just give us a go!” The
responsibility has been laid squarely on us as people who have inherited
Jesus’ revolution: to empower those with the least power to
be all that they can be, to free those imprisoned by cultural norms
to flourish as human beings, to nurture a love that crosses boundaries
of gender as we seek together a universal sprit of both care and
justice.
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